One point that got me thinking is when he talked about people wanting attention for their problems instead of solutions. I know a lot of people who are like this, and it annoys me. I've been taught from a young age that there's stuff you tell people and stuff you don't. I've learned the word for this is tact, knowing what to say and who to say it too.A lot of people need to learn this lesson.Another point I connected with is that "people who are the problem never admit they are the problem." My mother and my grandmother have been fighting for months, they won't talk to each other and I'm the middle man. My mom asks me about Easter because she won't talk to grandma so I have to call. It's madness but neither will admit that they've done anything wrong. My mom blames my grandma and my grandma blames my mom. Now if they actually talked things through, I know they'd both be a lot happier. Their relationship wasn't perfect but my mom would call my grandma on her way to work everyday, they planned trips so my brother and I could be happy. From my view point, both my grandma and mom are at fault, but until they both see they're at fault nothing will get fixed.This whole video is actually a therapy technique I learned in the hospital. I do this process everyday, given it's not the statement "I love my job", it's usually "I love my life because..." and it helps. When you're sad or angry at a situation sometimes just thinking about it differently helps. Well I love my life because my cats adorable or Mcdonalds is close to my house so I can eat chicken nuggets any time I want. Even if it's small simple stuff. The power of positive thinking, can really change the outlook on life, or your job or whatever.
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